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I Cable girls by Netflix, a feminist series not to be missed


This is one of the latest Spanish additions to Netflix who is increasingly introducing foreign films and series to its UK site. For those of you who don’t know it, Netflix has a different availability of films and series based on the country you are  in.  This is not only  based on the taste of their audience but  also the competitors who might own the rights to broadcast a particular series.

I seem to be in a pretty woman empowerment awareness period. I’m reading, following interesting stories and asking myself loads of questions I had not before. 

Hence I am developing a special interest in anything woman related. Well, maybe everything is an overstatement, many things. Some of them are too superficial and I honestly can’t be bothered.
Setting

Madrid, Spain, the 20s. Alfonso XIII reigns and Spanish women live pretty much subdued to the tyranny of a patriarcal system which sees them as “servants” or “breeding machines”

Telefónica-one of the largest phone providers in the globe nowadays – is expanding and is hiring more operators.

Story pitch (no spoilers)

The first episode of The cable girls  introduces the main characters : Lidia (previously know as Alba and whose story will be little by  little unveiled),Carlota, Carolina and other girls are being hired in an ever-expanding soon to be multinational. Friendship, love, betrayal and great expectations are surrounding the lives of these cable girls.

Why you should not miss it

  1. The charm of the 20’s before Franco took over th country. 
  2. It’s truly entertaining 
  3. If you are aware of Depicts the lives of women of the time. Women who were expecting to fit into the stereotype of the mother, woman who could not have an opinion, woman who accepted the mistreatment of some use thy had no better option or were nit brought up to think for themselves .
  4. There are heroines which will defy th system and will break the rules and get caught in many interesting stories.

Negative point 

The choice  of soundtrack : soft pop inn in th  background at times which feels too unnatural for the time. 

Dubbing is not bad but it can feel  strange if your first language is English. Anglophone countries ar not used to dubbing as much as we are in Spain or Italy. Just set the sound to Spanish and turn subtitles on. Honestly, do not miss out on something nice just for that reason.

Acting

Very good generally.

(Thanks to Netflix for the images)
Let m know if you watch it and liked it.
Love, 

 Miss_Happenings

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Fibroids and Esmya treatment

I know it is quite a full on post to start with but as I am still dealing with this issue it is quite a hot a relevant topic. Besides, since I have been diagnosed with fibroids I have been doing so much research that it could be useful for someone in the same situation to be told about one´s journey.

My symptoms

I started with some unusual random light spotting last year, 2016, in May. At the time I put it down to not having the mini pill at the right time. Though this seemed quite unusual to me, I thought it was the most plausible explanation. As I was not taking my pills at the exam same time -not using the alarm clock as I have seen other people do- I thought my body was just being too sensitive.

After a summer of stress and ,luckily, loads of love and fun the spotting did not stop so I went to my GP.

 

There the treatment I received was very polite but shockingly dismissive. I was literally told “bodies change” as an explanation to my spotting. They asked about stress, I told them about my job (teacher and deputy housemistress in a boarding school) and they linked it to it. That was all.

How I was diagnosed

By the end of October the spotting was more frequent and heavier. Over the half-term I decided to pay a visit to A&E back in my home country, Spain. By then I was aching and hurting.  They scanned me and found an 8cm fibroid and some others. I was referred to a specialist and went back to the UK waiting for my apointment.

In the meantime, I contacted my health insurance. Yes, I have a health insurance, which is against my principles because my local doctors are rather dismissive. With the scan results in hand I headed to the hospital where I underwent and MRI and several blood tests. The scan results were pretty clear and this was just to make sure it was just that and there were not any other complications that the scan did not pick up.

With all my results, I faced the scariest doctor visit ever. I sat down and my gynaecologist asked me straight away “do you want to have children?”. Imagine, I am 37 and until now I had not met the right person or even knew if I wanted. I started to ask myself big questions for which I do not have the answers yet.

On the bright side, my doctor – also a woman- was very keen to try anything before having actual surgery just to avoid the odd change of losing my womb.

My decision

I was so scared, tired and ignorant that I wanted to “get rid of it” regardless of the consequences. I talked to my mother, my sister and friends. After a week of reading and having lots of talks to other women  decided to try Esmya which is a palliative and preservative treatment.

What is Esmya,price and availability

Esmya is a medicine that contains the active substance ulipristal acetate. It is available as tablets (5 mg).  It is basically the same principle of the “day after pill” but in a different dose. I know, it sounds strange, right?

Esmya it is a progesterone inhibitor drug. Progesterone has been linked in controlling the growth of the lining of the womb and could be the cause in some women of its existence. Esmya induces some kind of forced menopause in your body by doing so. Post’menopausal women have been found not to suffer from this. If the cause of your fibroid is  hormone related, this could be the answer. Having said that, doctors are not very sure why they appear and how to control them.

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Esmya costs in the UK and it is not covered by the NHS. In fact, many doctors will not even prescribe it. In my experience, they do not even know it. Why would they, if they cannot offer it? They have heard of it but not much more. The 28 tablets can be purchased for the whooping price of 163.42 pounds which is what I paid my first month. I have found a site on google which states that they are sold for around 105 pounds but that is not my experience, and I did ask in several pharmacies.

If you are with an insurance they will not cover it either.

The good news is that in Spain the Seguridad Social (Spanish NSH equivalent) covers most so you just pay 4.75 euro.  Spanish research  found that ,over time, paying for Esmya is better for two reasons: 1. it spares a good number of women with minnor fibroids from an operation  and makes surgery much less invasive for  many 2. it saves money by sparing women from surgery.

Is it working for me?

Esmya also reduces the symptoms such as bleeding, pains, etc but also has side effects. Overall, in my personal experience I have found Esmya to be good:  after one month I had to run to hospital. I had a severe urine infection which had symptoms which could be similar to those of a big fibroid. The doctors scanned me again just to make sure that everything was ok. They found out that my fibroid had reduced from 8 to 6 cm in a month. So the answer is yes.

I am not sure this massive decrease in size will continue. In fact I see no difference now. But it is already a gain and a step forward. I am yet to finish my one year treatment. I take it for 3 months and I am off 2. We will see at the end.  I am due a checkup soon, so I will keep you posted.

Points to consider before considering surgery

Unless surgery is a must and a pressing matter you should have these into account.

  1. Have you got children or would you like to? Even with minor surgery, you will be left with scar tissue which can rupture once you have a baby whilst in labour. Preserving and diminishing the size and side effects of fibroids here is a good idea.
  2. Considering other options such as embolisation (not my favourite after speaking to my doctor).

The rule of thumb here is that if you do not have an urgent case is better that you take your time. Every treatment has side effects and you should weight up their possible consequences and their long term significance in your life.

One final thing

I wrote this because I read the post of a Spanish doctor who suffered from fibroid. Because she was over 45 at the time, all her colleagues advised her to have a hysterectomy (full removal of the womb).

Our uterus has a function in our body, apart from “hosting and making babies”. This doctor explained her experience and made me want to try. As of today, I still do not know if I will ever have children and I am aware I am 36 and  I want to continue to enjoy the hormone regulating functions of my womb no matter what.

 

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About the name of the blog 

First and foremost I wanted to make it clear: why girls and not women? Simply because it rhymes.

This  blog is aimed at any female of any age from anywhere around the world.

I want to think that in the process of writing this, the blog will engage women from all over to share, read about the things they care, find out interesting things and give all of us some food for thought.
I don’t want to make this about me, but about us because we all have common points with which we can identify ourselves. Hopefully, by doing so, we all will realise that we are not that different/strange and will grow in some aspects.

Am I being a bit too optimistic? I hope not.
I welcome suggestions about things that matter to you and, things about which you care. I will do my very best to write about that.

Love,

Mariví 
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